Why You Need a Success Mindset
By Jacklyn | February 27, 2009
Why you need a success mindset? Especially so during this time of the economy when we are so surrounded by negativity. Some people think that success is a natural result of proper planning, preparation and focused action, and that viewpoint certainly holds a grain of truth – but we need more than that to reach success. We need ingredients like proper mindset, positive attitude, courge, emotional management, consistency and perseverence to make it to our goals and able to sustain them long term! Have you ever wondered how two people can attempt the same objective in the same way and only one of them succeed? Is it sheer luck? Timing? Tenacity? More often than not, it’s a person’s mind-set that determines whether they succeed or fail.
What is a mind-set, anyway? Typically a mind-set refers to your predominant state of mind day to day. It’s what you think about, focus on, and expect from your daily experiences. If you think negatively, expect the worst, feel pessimistic about your options and that’s exactly what you’ll seem to draw into your life. Likewise, if you think positively, expect the best and focus on a successful outcome and you get it most of the time.
Makes sense, right? But how exactly does this work? Why is a success mind-set so important? There are three big reasons:
1) A success mind-set boosts your confidence and self-belief.
A lack of belief in yourself usually comes along with a sense of powerlessness and futility, which is the exact opposite of a success mind-set. Lack of confidence means you see no point in trying to be successful because it won’t happen anyway. Obviously, this type of mind-set is a recipe for failure in any endeavor.
Having a true success mind-set, on the other hand, means you believe in yourself and your capabilities. You believe you can succeed at nearly anything you do, and you’re willing to give it your best shot. Even better, the more you do it, the more confidence and self-belief you build – until you’re virtually unstoppable!
2) A success mind-set strengthens your determination.
Without a success mind-set, one failure is enough to convince you that pursuing your goals is a waste of time. Tenacity and determination don’t exist in your world. If you don’t become a raging success the first time you try, you surmise that it simply wasn’t meant to be. Unfortunately, only few things worth having are obtained easily!
A success mind-set, however, strengthens your awareness that a failure is not the end of the story – it is just a feedback, just one more way that didn’t work out the way you planned. In fact, a true success mind-set makes it obvious that the only true failure occurs only when you give up.
3) A success mind-set encourages fruitful actions.
Have you ever found yourself wandering in circles because you didn’t know the best way to approach a specific goal? Perhaps you had an idea of the best course of action but you felt intimidated by some of the action steps required. As a result, you may have kept sabotaging your efforts as you searched in vain for an easier or less frightening way to your goal.
With a true success mind-set, you’ll always know the most effective action steps that will lead directly to your goal. As already discussed, you’ll also have the inner confidence and determination to pursue them – which is a sure recipe for . . . that’s right… success!
If I had to sum up how to develop a success mind-set into as few words as possible, I’d say this:
– Go for your dreams.
– Think positively.
– Believe in yourself.
– Believe you can do better.
– Learn, grow and develop yourself.
– Be willing to take chances.
– Do whatever it takes.
– Expect the best in every situation.
– Be prepared to receive feedbacks.
– When you don’t get your desired outcome, reveal your strategy and move on.
Keep doing that and you can’t help but become successful, from the inside out.
Topics: Leadership, Motivation, Personal Development, Positive Attitude | 1 Comment »
That’s What Friends Are For
By Jacklyn | February 19, 2009
You’re right.. That’s What Friends Are For is one of my favourite songs, besides If We Hold On Together by Diana Ross, I Hope You Dance by Lee Ann Womack, The Power Of The Dream by Celine Dion, One Moment In Time by Whitney Houston, Hero by Mariah Carey… and the list goes on.
I have anchored such great positive emotions with That’s What Friends Are For so much so that for months till now, this song is my mobile phone’s ringtone. Want to know a little history of That’s What Friends Are For?
- Written by Carol Bayer Sager and Music by Burt Bacharach
- Originally recorded by Rod Stewart in 1982
- Became famous in 1985 when recorded by ensemble known as Dionne & Friends, consisting of Dionne Warwick, Elton John, Stevie Wonder, and Gladys Knight
- Was recorded as a benefit for American Foundation for AIDS Research, and raised millions
- Won the Grammy Award for Best Pop Performance by a Duo or Group with Vocal, as well as Song of the Year writers Bacharach and Bayer Sager
- Ranked by Billboard magazine as the most popular song of 1986
~ That’s What Friends Are For ~
And I, never thought I’d feel this way
And as far as I’m concerned
I’m glad I got the chance to say
That I do believe I love you
And if, I should ever go away
Well then close your eyes and try
To feel the way we do today
And then if you can remember
Keep smiling, keep shining
Knowing you can always count on me, for sure
That’s what friends are for
For/In good times and/in bad times
I’ll be on your side forever more
That’s what friends are for
Well you came and opened me
And now there’s so much more I see
And so by the way I thank you
And then, for the times when we’re apart
Well then close your eyes and know
These words are coming from my hearts
And then if you can remember
Keep smiling, keep shining
Knowing you can always count on me, for sure
That’s what friends are for
For/In good times and/in bad times
I’ll be on your side forever more
That’s what friends are for
Topics: Gratitude, Inspiration, Personal Life, Quotes, Video | 1 Comment »
Facebook reverses on user information policy
By Jacklyn | February 19, 2009
Do you use facebook? Facebook has been one of the most popular social networking platform for many online users. Are you aware that facebook changed their user information policy early this month? Now, they are putting the old policy back. Is our contents safe on all social networking sites…?
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The Tragedy Of Alcohol Abuse
By Jacklyn | February 11, 2009
After knowing about Jacqueline Saburido’s story, I feel there is such a strong need to help stop drunk driving. This is a collection of pictures portraying drunk driving accidents, binge drinking and the pain of the family members who lost loved ones. Some images are very graphic.
If you need to drive, don’t drink! If you need to drink, then don’t drive!!!
3:57 mins
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Inner Beauty – Forgiveness
By Jacklyn | February 10, 2009
It was a beautiful Sunday and my heart was singing with joy as I know I will be meeting many of my fellow POE coaches and past participants of POE in the afternoon. The feeling was awesome the moment I stepped into the main training room of AKLTG. A feeling that I’m so familiar with.. what stood in front of me is a mental picture that I see so often in my mind whenever I feel I need that extra boost of motivation and inspiration.
‘Gearing Up for 2009 with Patterns of Excellence’ event has given many POE graduates gained new insights to how we can combat any challenges in 2009. It seems that many are already believing that year 2009 is going to be a challenging year?? Being a believer in Law of Attraction, of course I think otherwise. I am ready to align my goals to achieve what I desire this year. In fact, I have already signed up with the founder of NLP, Richard Bandler, his Charisma Enhancement and Trainer Training this coming March 2009 in Florida, Orlando!
I want to highlight a story which Stuart Tan shared with us during the event. It has inspired me so much that till now, it is still so vivid in my mind. It’s a story of a beautiful woman Jacqueline Saburido. A woman that deserve all our salute to her bravery to battle her life ahead, and her enormous generosity to forgive. To me, this is really what I call “Inner Beauty”. It’s a 7 mins video showing Jacqueline appearing in Oprah Winfrey’s live show. Please share your thoughts and feelings with us after the video..
7 Mins
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Employee Motivation: Elements of Greatness
By Jacklyn | January 29, 2009
What makes people great? These elements define greatness and will inspire and motivate you and your team go beyond your best, to GREATNESS.
It is not enough to be the best… when you have the ability to be GREAT
What is your potential?
What is holding you back?
VISION ~ can you see, touch and taste your dreams
BELIEF ~ beyond hope, absolute faith in yourself, on your goals, in the outcome
DESIRE ~ what gives depth and meaning in your life?
COURAGE ~ the ability to place your dreams above your fears
PERSEVERANCE ~ in the face of disappointment.. in the face of setbacks and barriers.. the strength to take one step.. and then.. another step… and then another…
EXECUTION ~ what inspires you to take action? what is your creative force?
PASSION ~ what spark lights your soul? what drive you?
Aspire to greatness in each facet of your life… in your career, in your relationships, in your dreams… for the future.
It’s simply not enough to be the best… When you Have the ability to be GREAT
12:16 mins
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New Year Inspiraiton – What is Your Price?
By Jacklyn | January 28, 2009
I want to share a story of a presenter who has made many people realize an amazing fact during his seminar…
He started his presentation by holding up a $100 bill in the room of 200 people. Then he asked “Who would like to have this $100 bill?”
Almost everyone puts up their hands.
He then, crumpled the bill and asked the same question “Who wants it now?”
He thought that the people might not raise their hands, but.. many hands were up again!
He then tore the bill into 2 pieces and ask the audience again “who still want it now?”
Once again, almost everyone wanted that. Then, he explained to the audience…
“My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $100.”
“Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless but it is not correct! we can always make differences to feel!”
How true. Quite often, people feel defeated, incapable and lousy when things don’t turn out well for them. That will only make the situation worst. We must keep reminding ourselves of our self worth, just like that $100 bill. No matter how crumpled or bad-shape we can be at this moment, we are still worthy. In fact, I think our value increases even more as we have gain valuable experiences through the actions we took.
When we choose to think and feel this way, we put ourselves in a more resourceful state to handle whatever situation and move on. Remember, we have the power to choose. You can choose to be positive or negative, you can choose to feel big or small and you can choose to be happy or sad. I choose to live a life full of positivity, excitement and happiness… what about you?
Please share your thoughts with us and leave some encouraging.. inspiring.. empowering.. words for our readers…
Have an awesome year 2009 ahead!
Topics: Inspiration, Motivation, Personal Development, Self Esteem | 4 Comments »
